Tuesday, December 16, 2008

the ball is rolling

we got a call from one of the women from social services on friday. i called her back and then waited patiently all day yesterday for her to call me back again. we learned in the very first meeting that we will be waiting alot. so i didn't think much of it. but when we got home there was another message from another woman introducing herself as our home study worker. yikes! it's really happening.
i just got ahold of the first woman and she wanted to make sure that we understood that when we marked "adoption" on our application that the kids that we get won't be free to be adopted right away. they will be foster. they REALLY want you to understand that this might not work out. i appreciate that. i'd rather them do that then promise me worry-free-perfect children ages 0-3 months that are free for adoption.
the second lady wanted to know when we'd like to meet for our first home study meeting. it will be about an hour long. then we'll have 2 meetings with both of us that are 2 hour meetings. then we will have individual meetings that are 2-3 hours a peice. YIKES! (i think i'll be saying that alot in the next few months.) at the rate we're going i feel like we'll be done in 60 days instead of the traditional 3-6 months. i guess i'd better start looking for a bigger place quicker than i thought.

4 comments:

Robbyn said...

Wow, this does seem to be happening fast! So excited for you and really admire you for going for it. Best of luck!

Anonymous said...

SO exciting!!

Nicole said...

cheri' can I be your foster child? How lucky is some kid going to be to get you and paul to be their parents. im just a little bit jealous.

Del Angelo said...

No doubt it will be a journey. Many ups and downs, but hey, isn't that life???? Praying for you!